11 April, 2008 - Babies or Wives?

We had lunch at Sakae Sushi in Hougang to meet up with Glenda. She shared some of the things that her hubby did didn't do. He did not ask if she had taken her lunch/dinner. Did not ask what she did the whole day..and this got me thinking.

For a newly wed, there would be much passion and lovey dovey stuff. Couple does everything together. Baby comes. Wife spends more time on baby than hubby. Hubby shows more care for baby than wifey. Hmmm let's talk about the recuperating bit..of the wife after delivering baby. She cannot go out,cannot eat whatever she wants to eat,cannot fit into pre-pregnancy clothes errrmmm cannot bathe and wash her hair for a month, have to wake up in the middle of the night to feed baby...and i do not know what else there is..

Hubby comes home after a hard day at work. But he did not have to go through the pain of child birth, he hasn't become fat, life has not change much except having a new member to the family hmmm so he could and should spare more TLC (tender loving care) to wifey. She might be suffering from post natal blues...

How should a man show TLC to his wife during the first month after child birth? A woman's basic emotional needs are simple i guess..attention, care, love and more love. And be very sensitive to ALL her needs. :D You've got the child, don't neglect the mother of your child.

For now, i am obsessed with this Korean drama, GET KARL OH SOO JUNG ..look at the biceps, the soulful eyes, the tall and handsome, madly in love Karl...waaaaaah 男人过了三十真的很有魅力.. better keep an eye on jfk heh heh