Had lunch at Parkway Parade today cos it was raining and no one wants to get wet from stepping on muddy grounds...
The hot babe i mentioned before is forthright and kinda open too. She shared with us about her marriage over coffee at Ak Kun loti keke Apparently, her hubby is a very bad tempered guy and has even tried to hit her when he is mad. She tried asking him to go for anger management courses but pride prevented him for going. Tho' she has walked out on him a few times, he always managed to win her back...i think she puts up with his nonsense cos of their daughter and stays clear of show downs with him by going drinking almost every other nites... Beneath that veneer and poise, is a woman with so much pain and misery...
Anyway, her advice to single gals on which are the top 3 types of men to avoid.
1) Bad tempered guys
2) Gamblers
3) Possessive guys
4) Violent guys
It's refreshing to have someone be so honest and open once in a while and i like her. Another colleague shares with us about how her dad has hit her mum...driving her mum to suicide (luckily the tie snapped and she is still alive) And another colleague shares about how her bf of 10 years cheated her into buying a car and leaving her for another woman...
This is by far the best lunch i had. Honesty, openness and no pretence. I think i might have found the right place and i thank God for that. Only downside is perhaps the workload, it's really busy but i should be thankful that i am learning lotsa new things. :) Be grateful since nothing is perfect...hey bak bak sistas, both of you are absolutely rite keke
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Living in the past paralyzes the present and bankrupts the future.
The pain of disappointment is soothed by a heart of gratitude.
"You have turned for me my mourning into dancing."
- Psalm 30:11
Yup, living in the past is unhealthy, it's better to engage in the present and plan for the future. But once in awhile, it's perfectly alright to revisit the past to remember and learn from your experiences to be a better person.
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